More response to come, but since this is essential, I'd like to remind you of the actual content of my 1-10 question.
--what would you say is the Bible's general evaluation of knowledgeable apostates, who attempt to turn people's hearts away from Jesus? Maybe rate it on a scale of 1 to 10, where 1 is your basic hellspawn and 10 is straight from the lips of God Himself.
Not what was Pulliam's position vis-a-vis Christianity. What is the Bible's position vis-a-vis people like Pulliam? (And you, incidentally, just so we're clear.)
I'd like to know what you think the Bible says about men like Pulliam (and yourself).
Does the Bible think that apostates who have a great deal of learning about Jesus and who turn away and put out a great deal of energy trying to turn others away from Jesus as well are really really good people? Or does it speak of them in slightly, um, more condemnatory terms? 1 = the Bible is very condemning of such people. 10 = they're going straight to Heaven barnone.
This is what you think the Bible says about you and Pulliam.
Does the Bible think that apostates who have a great deal of learning about Jesus and who turn away and put out a great deal of energy trying to turn others away from Jesus as well are really really good people? Or does it speak of them in slightly, um, more condemnatory terms? 1 = the Bible is very condemning of such people. 10 = they're going straight to Heaven barnone.
This is what you think the Bible says about you and Pulliam.
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--"Your comment was a breach of decorum, a violation of custom."
Is this really persuasive to you? It's amazing that someone could say this with a straight face.
Turning away from orthodox Christian faith is itself a breach of decorum, as you and Pulliam have done. So...what?
A Yanomamo about to plunge his spear into a rival tribesman's heart would react the same way if a whitey like me shouted "Stop!" and got in his way. What possible meaning could this have?
--"Having been a missionary you must be familiar with this kind of issue."
Enough to realise when it's really an issue and when baiting a bunch of atheists to make idiots of themselves is quite worthwhile, yes. Pulliam's blog is not exactly a missionary ground for open-hearted people, ready to hear the Gospel. I go there to overthrow tables and challenge people, and thus appeal to the lurkers that the "we're the High Priests of Rationality" atheists are just empty poseurs. Judging by the emptyheaded but fervently-emotional response, mission accomplished.
That's not the only reason I posted what I posted, but it's one of the principal factors.
--"Out of ignorance you make a gaffe and offend the natives. "
Only someone UNfamiliar with actual mission work could make such a comparison.
--"Americans don't think it is appropriate to speak ill of the dead in the presence of their family and friends, especially during the grieving period. "
Some don't think it's EVER appropriate to talk about religion or politics. You don't seem to mind offending THEM.
Others don't think it's EVER OK to turn your back on the religion you once espoused. Why be so hypocritical?
The answer is that some customs are best broken, b/c they are stupid and/or wicked customs.
--" I'll grant you that it appears to be a bit of a stretch to associate a blog with "in the presence of family and friends." "
It's not a BIT of a stretch. It's an unreasonable stretch. If family mbrs were atheists, I'm aiming right at them - they need to repent and get their heads out of the sand. If they are Christians, why are they reading his blog? his blog itself is offensive to Christians! And why read THAT PARTICULAR COMBOX?
This is not even debatable, it's so silly, and yet it's the crux of that for which most people have been abusing me.
--"We're still building the cultural rules around behavior in the blogosphere and trying to figure out how it should relate to the rest of our lives. "
You don't seem like you're "building rules" when you condemn me, or when you fail to call others out for abusing me. Why be so hypocritical?
--" You are not the only one confused by this situation."
Do be kind enough to speak only for yourself.
--"Shortly afterwards somebody else created a Facebook page dedicated to taking messages for Ken's family"
On which page I made a conscious decision NOT to post.
And on which page a fellow Christian blogger posted a pure condolence, and then was abused for it! How do you not see this?
--"you apparently misjudged the social situation"
I did?
Not at all - I knew exactly what was coming. I baited the atheists, and I got exactly what I expected - a spot lesson in atheist and liberal hypocrisy.
--"This is where 1 Cor 9:19-27 comes in. Paul "became all things" and so conformed to a lot of ridiculous restrictions on his freedom so that he wouldn't offend his audiences."
Yes, for issues like eating meat. Not in issues like proclaiming the truth. See, Paul also said Acts 17, and Galatians. It's BOTH, and there's a time for each.
--"What in God's name did you mean by that first sentence?"
I meant that his arguments against Christianity were pitifully bad and weak, and the implication is that he wasted much of his life since he had great education in Christian theology and yet couldn't muster anything close to a powerful stroke against it.
It is an expression of contempt for the way the man led his life, much like you'd have contempt for a 50 year old man throwing a tantrum b/c his mommy said he couldn't have a popsicle.
--"Was it your greater purpose to let everyone know that you hated Ken so much you got pleasure out of humiliating him? What kind of tactic is that? "Let us do evil that good may come?""
1) Hatred? The only time "hate" has been expressed, it's opponents ascribing it to me. You can't read my mind, and you don't know whether I hate Pulliam. But you apparently feel freedom to impugn my character, don't you? How is that not a violation of "social custom" and rank hypocrisy on your part?
2) You've just now elevated "violation of social custom" to "evil"? How did that happen? Where's your connecting argument? How do you even know what evil is?
3) Is there sthg evil about humiliating a man like Pulliam, who spent a great deal of his time trying to drag people to Hell with him? Do you ever call out PZ Myers, Richard Dawkins, and Hitchens for humiliating Christians? I doubt it! Hypocrisy.
--" a whole flock of his friends from work and the neighborhood got up during the eulogy to thank my brother for things he had taught them."
I'm sorry to hear about your brother, but an anecdote about a bunch of people who obviously couldn't tell their left hands from their right does not constitute an argument. What good did your brother do them? On atheism, they'll all be dead in 50 years and all will be forgotten in another 100. So what?
--"Had that happened and I had learned about it, I would have firmly escorted the individual out of the area with a warning not to return unless he wanted to deal with the police."
1) Hopefully you're not making a foolish analogy as if my posting on Pulliam's blog is similar to showing up at his funeral to shout and yell.
2) Apparently might makes right for you. Your comment is very educational.
3) You apparently think that it's OK to call down judicial punishment on someone who violates social custom. You're quite the judgmental man!
--"If you had heard somebody making comments like that about your child at the viewing or in the vestibule at church or at the gravesite or at some community event a week or a month or even a year later, wouldn't you want to do the same thing?"
1) Once again, a foolish analogy. Why not make a real analogy? Is this really the best you can do?
2) Was my baby an apostate from the faith, with a PhD in theology? Help me understand what you're thinking here.
3) Why are the same atheists who rip me for my comment the ones who make tawdry and disgusting jokes about my beloved wife?
--"Your comment not only provoked understandable hostility, it completely undermined your testimony."
What's the argument?
It might undermine the wrong ideas who think that Jesus was a pansy Who never offended anyone! Maybe that's why you're where you are - you can't bear to deal with the real Jesus.
--"I see a lot of discussion about your behavior. I see hardly anything about Jesus. "
And the argument that this is my fault and not the fault of those who hate Jesus?
--"Not being the sharpest knife in the drawer, it can take awhile for me to recognize when I'm being conned. "
Conned by asking you to demonstrate that you have any idea what you're talking about, biblically speaking? You said you used to be an evangelical pastor, and that you've been in church longer than I have.
If you were really a pastor and if you knew anything much about the Bible other than you can quote John 3:16 and think that Jesus wants us to be nice to everyone, you'd know that the Bible has nothing good to say about such apostates as you and Pulliam. What it has to say is fearful.
The entirety of Jude - http://nasb.scripturetext.com/ jude/1.htm
The entirety of 2 Peter 2 - http://nasb.scripturetext.com/ 2_peter/2.htm
Luke 17:1-2 - http://nasb.scripturetext.com/ luke/17.htm
Isaiah 45:9-10 - http://nasb.scripturetext.com/ isaiah/45.htm
2 Tim 2:16-26 - http://nasb.scripturetext.com/ jude/1.htm
Heb 6:4-8 - http://nasb.scripturetext.com/ hebrews/6.htm
Heb 10:26-38 - http://nasb.scripturetext.com/ hebrews/10.htm
And on and on it goes.
The answer is that the Bible regards men such as Pulliam and you at a 1; your end will be fearful and horrific. I of course hope Pulliam repented before he died suddenly, but it's doubtful, sadly. You still have time. Repent now and ask Jesus to forgive your great sin. He will, but He won't if you continue in your foolish and hypocritical rebellion. It'd be one thing if you had a good reason to buck against Him, but you don't even have that, as we've seen here. Your predicament is sorry and sad, but all too common.
Peace,
Rhology